It’s probably the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning and the last thing you do before you fall asleep at night. You pick up your phone, scroll through Twitter, check your notifications on Facebook, browse your Instagram feed.
It’s just become part of the routine, day in and day out. When we spend time on social media, we are putting our energy towards other people. Often, they are people we do not know, do not care about, or may even strongly dislike. But when we spend a lot of time on social media, it is all too easy to slip into the habit of wasting our energy on people who do not matter to us.
We feel pressure to add as many friends as possible on social media, but I recommend being very careful about who you add, follow, and interact with. Having thousands of “friends” might seem like a status symbol, but do you really need constant life updates from people you couldn’t care less about? We need be mindful about who we connect with and share our energy with both online and off.
Taking a break, going on a “deleting spree” through your friends list, or even quitting social media entirely might help your mindset.
Yes, social media can be fun, and it can also be extremely useful. But at the same time, it can easily be detrimental to our mental health. If you’re feeling low on energy, don’t waste it by worrying about other people’s posts and photos-hit that “log out” button and focus on yourself first.
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